I am a Buddhist in the Tibetan tradition, and I finally looked up “our” solstice holiday.
Ngenpa Gu Dzom, or the "Nine Bad Omens" day is the sixth day of the eleventh Tibetan month (Dec 21this year, I think). Supposedly, at the time of the Buddha, a person tried to accomplish many positive deeds, but nine bad things befell him. Buddha advised that on this date each year in the future, it is best not to try to accomplish much good. So to avoid starting anything new, most Tibetans spend this day picnicing and drinking beer.
The next day is Zangpo Chu Dzom, or "Ten Auspicious Omens," On this day, ten wonderful things happened to that same person of the Buddha’s time when he continued trying to do what was constructive. This period, then, is considered very favorable for positive projects. But, in general, Tibetans also take this time for picnics and beer.
So, I didn’t put in for the time off this year, but next year, (Dec 13&14) I will be cooking on the grill, serving beer, and playing croquet. No matter what the weather. No more scarves.
